Tuesday, November 20, 2018

November 12-18

Monday, November 12 to Sunday, November 18


I'm sitting down to write this at a table in the Leib & Siegel café around the corner from our apartment complex. The weather has turned wintery cold and although the apartment is warm and has lots of natural light, I'm definitely feeling cooped up. So, it seemed just the thing to sit in a cozy corner of a café with a hot drink to write.

Last week is already a bit of a blur. It was so normal. I did laundry a couple of times. I went grocery shopping a couple of times. I have a bigger fridge and more storage than I did in Bonn so I'm able to spread my shopping out a bit from the almost daily trips (in Bonn) to more like two big runs and one smaller trip. I just have to watch out that my list doesn't get so long that I can't get it all on my bike! Hasn't happened yet--I'm the master of packing those saddle bags and stacking things in my bike baskets. The kids went to school and came home and did their homework. J wrote and read. I practiced and went to my coaching session with Stellario on Wednesday. Just, you know, a normal week.

Headed through the upper halls of the Staatsoper building to my coaching session.

Gray skies over the Altstadt from the windows of the top floor of the Staatsoper.


A few stories from the week: HR needed me to get a book for her that her class is reading in Deutsch class: Iwein Löwenritter by Felicitas Hoppe. So, I went to the local bookstore, Buch und Bohne--I prefer to darken the doors of shops instead of ordering on Amazon, but I did check Amazon prices to see if it was significantly cheaper; it wasn't. HR is trying to read it mostly by herself and claims to understand what is going on--at least the gist of it. Along the same lines: GE is now required to read out loud to a parent each evening for 30 minutes and has a little log book where the parent signs that she has done it. After picking up HR's book from the bookstore, I swung over to the public library (we have a branch very close to us), and got some "easy reader" style books at the first and second grade levels. She can read the second grade books with a little help sounding big words out and occasionally asks what a word means, but otherwise understands it! Her pronunciation is delicate and precise--I know, that's hard to imagine when it comes to Deutsch; most Americans tend to think of German as being very harsh and guttural, but from the mouths of babes... it is so sweet!

The Frauenchor had their concert last weekend and the Himmelfahrtskirchen Chor gave their big Elias performance this weekend. I went to my usual evening rehearsal for the Frauenchor on Monday evening--we're starting in on the Christmas concert music and a few pieces for the spring concert already. Katrin gave me another solo on a Brahms piece from a cantata he wrote in Italian! That should be fun. The Himmelfahrtskirche choir had its usual rehearsal on Thursday evening (although it started earlier and went later), then Friday evening with orchestra, final dress rehearsal on Saturday morning, and the concert Saturday night. So much fun! The choir was really tight. It's been an absolute pleasure to sing with this group--there are over 100 voices and yet Herr Geitner can really pull us all together. It's a different feel and vibe from the Frauenchor (which is also fun because it's small and we do a lot of tuning since most of what we sing is a cappella). I haven't sung in a group this big in a long time, if ever! The soloists were impressive: Judith Spiesser, soprano; Anneka Ulmer, alto; André Khamasmie, tenor; Ludwig Mittelhammer, bass. The orchestra was a little less so... It was a group "for hire", Capella Istropolitana, an orchestra from Bratislava . With the exception of the first violinist, they didn't speak Deutsch and Herr Geitner doesn't speak Slovakian, so there was some frustration on both parts because communication was difficult. In the end, there was definitely room for improvement, but for such a tight rehearsal schedule together, it was pretty awesome.

The orchestra and choir beginning to assemble. Wish I could have stepped out to get a picture of the whole ensemble! The choir filled up all of the space up to the bottom of the organ and all the way out to the corners of the room on either side--and that was with everyone squished in like sardines on the stairs!

Personal connections... On Wednesday I joined with a handful of expats for an early morning walk in the Englischer Garten again. There were some new faces to the group and some familiar ones. It's getting quite a bit colder now, but with the brisk pace, I quickly warmed up and needed to unbutton my coat. From there I went with my Scottish friend, JL, who I'd met through MeetUp to a meeting of the Munich International Women's Club. They were having a craft bazaar fundraiser. I went along mostly for the social connection, but left with some 1€ used books. I'm loving having enough time to read novels... And the paper kind, not just an Audible book while driving up and down I-81!

On Saturday night after the Elias concert, the choir members headed over to a local Wirtshaus: "Valley's" (of all the names!). Everyone ordered their own food and drinks, and then hung out, chatting for another couple of hours. I had walked over with the young assistant director, Anne, and another soprano who stood near me in the concert arrangement, Elinor. We sat together and got to know each other a little better. Turns out Elinor and her husband have founded and sold a couple of businesses (although her training is in music and theater) and they are between projects, taking a year-long "sabbatical" to decide what to do next. As I got ready to leave (around midnight!), she asked for my number so we can get together. Yay! Finally a possible German friend... I feel like my Deutsch has remained sort of at the same level since our arrival. It's fluent and easy for the most part, but there are certain topics or ways of expressing things that I still stumble through. It's been hard not to be impatient, but when I spend most of my day with my head "in English" rather than "auf Deutsch," it's hard to make any progress. The girls, on the other hand, are expanding their Deutsch in leaps and bounds (although I know ME is frustrated that it isn't going faster for her).


Sunday morning HR and I took the Ubahn to The Munich Readery for a craft workshop: paper crafts using used book pages, old sheet music, scraps of wrapping paper, and old maps. The store owner, LY, is a friend of a friend in Virginia. We'd met once before and she told me about this workshop she was hosting with an author of an upcycling book. We learned how to make little Christmas trees, a 5-petal flower, and a sort of accordion-style ornament. I'm inspired! I've been wishing the girls had more to do besides computer games and watching television or their tiny screens. This is just the thing! Plus, the apartment needs some Weihnachts spirit... Since this was a one-on-one with HR, I decided it would be a good time to try to take each of the girls out for some checking-in. When we got back to the apartment, the sun was still shining, so I got ME to come out with me to go to the Alte Utting for a warm drink and some conversation. GE is next... just have to figure out what and when.




The lower deck of the Alte Utting is cozy and warm. People were coming and going the whole time we were there. Posters are advertising their Weihnachtsmarkt that will start next Wednesday. Can't wait!

Comparing blues... our eyes, that is.

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

November 5-11 (recovery week!)

Monday, November 5... to Monday, November 12

It took us all a couple of days to feel like we'd even begun to recover from our whirlwind trip! It's taken me all week to just get through all the photos and publish the blog posts. And the laundry... it took several days to get it all washed and dried. I used the rental car Monday morning to do a big grocery run and then returned it to the airport. I had Frauenchor rehearsal in the evening (we have a concert on Sunday afternoon) and I practiced for my coaching session.

A few other stories from the week-after-Herbstferien:

ME came home mid-week and reported that she'd had to stand up in front of her Wissenschaft und Recht class to summarize the class content from the week before (the class only meets once or twice a week). This is part of her teacher's process for determining each student's Mundlichenoten (oral participation grades). She knew it was a sort of random selection thing, so before class started she reviewed the notes from the last time the class met, so she could recall the terminology and content. She went to the front of the classroom and did her summary auf Deutsch, and got a 1 (equivalent of an A+)! Go ME!

I had my second coaching session with Stellario on Wednesday at the Staatsoper. We worked through Strauss' Lied "Allerseelen", Laudate Dominum omnes gentes (Psalm 117) from Mozart's Vesperae solennes de confessore, and Musetta's aria from La Boheme by Puccini. Stellario had me fix a couple of things in the Mozart and then said "If you sang it just like that in a performance, it would be wonderful." He sent me off with instructions to memorize the Puccini aria and assigned me two more!

J met me at the Staatsoper after my session and we took a leisurely bike ride through the gorgeous fall afternoon in the Englischer Garten. The weather is still so pleasant! 



THIS is November in Bayern?!


GE rode her bike to school on Friday and participated in the Realverkehrsfahrt (real traffic ride).

On Saturday I had an all day rehearsal for the Elias performance with the Himmelfahrtskirchen Chor (coming up on November 17), so J took HR to her cello lesson. She's invited to join one of the school groups for their concert on November 27th since she's been practicing their music in her lessons. One of J and ME's friends from the board game group came over to our apartment to play Mage Wars with them and brought along some movies to watch after. J is having so much fun with the game group. Now if I could get one of them to remember to take some pictures to help document the experience...

On Sunday, J and ME went to an all-day board game club monthly meeting (they went to the same last month). HR, GE, and I had a quiet morning at home, cleaned the apartment (on a Sunday, <gasp!>), and then I headed out mid-afternoon. The Frauenchor gave their Chor Kunst Konzert (choir art concert) at 5 p.m. and I  needed to arrive early for warm-ups and to help set up the Kunst room. I recorded it, so here's a link to the audio. I thought it went well! The director of the Himmelfahrtskirchen Chor was in the audience and connected with me after ("How many choirs are you actually singing in?!"). ME came home early so HR and GE were only home alone for an hour or so while I left to go to the choir warm-up. Everyone was home by 7 p.m. or so in the evening and then we all had to shift gears for school and the week ahead...

The concert venue: Himmelfahrtskirche in Sendling

The buffet set up in the adjacent room (which also happens to be where the choirs rehearse).

The artists and choir members milling about before the concert. It was packed in here after the concert was over!

Four different local artists were featured at this event. This one creates wire figures out of one piece of wire, paints fabric, and more. The others were a paper and card designer, stone jewelry, and ceramics. It was all beautiful!









Herbstferien - Wolfsburg

Friday, November 2 continued...

During our Osterferien in 2013 (see the end of this post and the first part of this), we visited our former German exchange student, JS, and her family in their home near Wolfsburg. We wanted to see them again and they graciously hosted us in lovely home. JS is in the middle of her Ausbildung at Volkswagen, combining a practical apprenticeship (paid job!) and university studies (paid for by VW!). [Come USA! We need to get with the program to create not only a trained workforce, but low student debt and the subsequent consequences to our economy! There is very little down side--JS will finish her college degree with no debt and job security if she chooses to stay at VW.] She has a sweet little apartment in Wolfsburg, near the VW complex, which we stopped by to see, but she spent the weekend at her parents' home while we were there. When we arrived on Friday, they had a lovely lunch set out: homemade tomato soup, bread, and homemade cakes with coffee after. Mid-afternoon they had reserved spots of us to tour the VW plant (or a small part of it--it's HUGE!), then a very Deutsch supper of Rouladen when we returned to their house. J and I stayed at a nearby Pension while the girls stayed with JS at the house.

Waiting outside the VW visitors complex for the ferry that would take us to the tour start location.



Where we stayed, the Meyers Hofcafe und Pension, while the girls slept at the S's house.

Saturday, November 3

We slept in a little--ME slept in A LOT--then ate a rather late breakfast together at the S home. Late morning we headed into Wolfsburg to go shopping with JS. We met her dad and boyfriend, L, at a nearby Italian restaurant for lunch and then walked through the pedestrian zone to shop a little more. Nothing exciting, just mostly being together. The evening meal was a traditional Abendbrot.


Snapshots of a Bauernhof in Isenbüttel as I walked from the Pension back to the S home.


On our walk through the pedestrian zone in Wolfsburg after we had been shopping, the girls found these wolf statues and had to pose for photos, of course. Notice they're only wearing sweatshirts! It is so warm!






Sunday, November 4

We rose early to pack up and shared a final breakfast meal with the S family before hitting the road. We had a long drive to get back to München and traffic on the Autobahn can be rather  unpredictable. We stopped in Leipzig for a break and a light lunch (coffee and some bakery foods, since regular stores aren't open on Sundays) and walked through the pedestrian zone to the church where J.S. Bach worked and is buried. Then it was back on the road with gray skies all the way "home" to München. I think we arrived back at the apartment between 5 and 6 p.m. although it's all a little blurry now! I found a spot on the street to park the rental car and then got busy unpacking, starting the loads of laundry [many--it wasn't all washed and dried until about Friday!], and getting settled again. School starts bright and early tomorrow morning!



College of music in Leipzig.


It was quiet and uncrowded on this cool fall Sunday morning.

The plaza outside the St. Thomas church where Bach is buried.



The accordion player was amazing! He was playing these impossible Bach organ fugues on that little thing. Should have taken a video to post...







Bach's grave (floor panel with flowers)


One of two organs in the church. Would love to return for a concert!