Tuesday, August 21, 2018

Transition week! August 15-19

The last days before our departure were a flurry of activity: vet appointments with the cats, urgent care visit with MK (poison ivy!), and repacking... Several pieces of luggage were still too heavy, so we shuffled and discarded until everything came in under 50 lbs. We knew we would be checking an "extra" piece of luggage (one giant suitcase dedicated to winter coats, snow pants, and ski gear), but wanted to avoid other fees. The kids each had a backpack stuffed full of their favorite toys, books, or other personal items. Joshua and I had important papers, files, and our laptops along with the usual crim cram you want in your carry on (chargers, tablets, phones, etc.). By Wednesday early afternoon, we were ready to go, the house was in order, and I couldn't stand the thought of twiddling our thumbs waiting for the "don't leave later than" time, so we loaded the luggage into the van and spread the kids out between the 3 vehicles traveling from home to Harrisonburg for good-byes and picking up the extra driver (to drive our van back from the airport) and just left (3 hours earlier than planned)!

By late afternoon my parents, J's parents, and some in-laws had gathered at my sister-in-law's house to see us off. The cousins wanted to hide away in our luggage and come along! A little before 5 p.m. we were on the road and only encountered a little construction traffic on 66 East. We unloaded and checked in almost immediately. Our check-in guy was kind enough to wave the extra baggage fee (I think we impressed him by having all our luggage--even the giant suitcase--under the 50 lb weight limit)!

The Lufthansa flight was pretty slick--arrived 30 minutes early. I've never flown without a layover before and it was really nice to know that we didn't have to find another gate or sit and wait (or race through an unfamiliar airport to get to a connecting flight). Our luggage came out quickly and we were on our way. It was lunch time so we found food on our way to the rental car area.

Since our flight went so smoothly, I figured there would be a hiccup somewhere. Flizzr did not disappoint. Flizzr is a discount rental company that piggybacks off Sixt. Somehow a "reservation" of a certain sized car does not guarantee that we'll get that size of a car! So we pressed the Sixt rental agent to figure out our options and he eventually figured out that he could get us the right size if we could adjust how many days we needed it for. Thankfully, our needs were flexible, so after 2 hours of back and forth (he had to go to a manager at the main Sixt counter to sort this all out), we finally had a set of keys and a super-minivan (what passes for a minivan; has a 3rd row of seats in the trunk space, but is more like an oversized station wagon). I was sure we wouldn't be able to get all 6 large suitcases in the back, but we stacked them flat and stuffed one in behind the driver's seat (I was driving--short legs!) with GE sitting cross-legged in the seat behind it! Everyone but me held their carry-ons on their laps and we were good to go.
Loaded! Still can't believe we got it all in.

The property manager of our building is on vacation in Morroco, so his brother met us on the road outside, helped us unload the luggage, and then guided me to the underground garage with the tiniest, most awkward parking space to get into (had to turn around and back in). Managed to squeeze the large wagon in with just a few mm to spare! All the car's space detectors were going off! Then he showed us where the garbage room, storage room, and laundry room (with dryers!) was located, gave us keys to all and went through a checklist in the apartment. By this time it was after 5 p.m. and we were all hungry, so I took a short walk with ME to the REWE City grocery store around the corner and came home with supplies and some simple supper food. Shower and bed... Day 1 FERTIG!

August 17,  2018

On Friday J and I walked over to the KVR (Kreisverwaltungsreferat - "Regional Administration Center" or something like that... German bureaucracy...) so J could do the Stadtanmeldung (city registration) for our family. Basically, we have to tell München that we have moved into a residence and plan to stay and then when it's time to leave, we have to do an Abmeldung (un-registration) with the city 2 weeks before we leave. We got to the office between 7:30 and 8 a.m. (it opened at 7:30) and there was already a ridiculous line. I left him there to wait and in the meantime, I found the nearest Aldi, got a few things, found a home goods store with a 50% off sale on towels and bought towels (there were only 3 for the whole apartment and nothing in the kitchen), and explored a couple of other side streets while walking back to the apartment. When I arrived I got J's texts (via wi-fi at the office building--we still didn't have SIM cards for the phones at that point) that he needed the passports for all the girls too (he had ours with him), so I grabbed those and hustled back to the KVR to find him in the waiting zone. I left him there to wait some more and took another new route home. Once he returned, we had a simple lunch.

After lunch, we rallied the girls to go back out with us to investigate our options for cell phone SIM cards. We stopped at a couple of places until we settled on T-mobile's Congstar service which is a prepaid/pay-as-you-go style plan so we won't be locked into a service plan when we leave in 9 months. We forgot to take our passports with us though and those are needed to buy and activate new SIM cards throughout Europe, so Joshua left us to go back to the apartment and get them. We agreed to meet back at the phone shop in an hour. I wanted to find a shop where I could get a rolling shopping cart. My shoulders and arms were already complaining about carrying the grocery bags that morning. We asked the phone shop guy for a suggestion and were off.

We found all kinds of other things on the way-- a fountain, various shops and cafes, 2 movie theaters, and Sendlinger Tor, an entrance to the Altstadt. Finally, we arrived at the Galeria Kaufhof where I quickly located the department where there was a range of simple to fancy rolling carts to choose from. We got a few other essentials while we were there, loading up the new shopping cart, and then headed back to the phone shop.

J had already finished when we arrived, so the girls got their promised ice cream cones from a local Gelato shop and we headed home...

25,000+ steps that day. Whew!

The rest of the week...

I'm writing this on Tuesday morning and realizing that so much has happened that it's starting to blur together and I'll need to write things down each evening (I sort of remember doing this when we were in Bonn, but it's a faded memory). So, I'll try to summarize everything we've done since Friday!

Saturday morning Joshua and I hunted down a phone kiosk near the Karlsplatz that sold refurbished smartphones and Lebara prepaid phone cards. We got Maggie a basic phone and Lebara plan and headed home. Later in the afternoon, we used the car to go to the OBI Markt across town. OBI is sort of the German version of a Home Depot or Lowe's but on a smaller scale. I was hoping to find some fans since it's been quite warm and we could use the white noise at night to drown out the street noise, but no luck (we'd heard Europe is basically sold out of fans due to the sustained heat wave they've had). I also had a list of other random household stuff, so I got most of what I needed, loaded the car and then drove to the Aldi and loaded up on groceries and bulkier items. The girls had come along and we passed the Oktoberfest grounds. We can actually walk quite easily from our apartment to the Oktoberfest area, but the girls hadn't seen the scale of this yet--it's quite a bit bigger than the Rockingham County fair grounds and there are already tents and buildings being set up for the fall festival. All over town there are now "pop up" stores selling discounted Oktoberfest clothing: Dirndls and Lederhosen!

After we got back to the apartment J told me he'd made a reservation for us at the Frauenhofer, a restaurant and Biergarten that features theater productions throughout the year and was highlighted in our guide book. So we got the girls settled and took a walk... We followed the canal that runs along our apartment building and goes under the Kapuzinerstraße, then crossed up into the Glockenbachviertel neighborhood.
I love how Germans insert greenery into everyday spaces. Even on sidewalks destitute of trees, the locals grow vines up their drain spouts!

Google maps was showing a street festival happening between our location and destination, so we detoured slightly in order to walk through it. The street fest, Schwule Straßen Fest Hans-Sachs-Straße, is the second largest street fest in München celebrating the LGBTQ community (which explained why the road closure on Google maps was rainbow-colored!). Very colorful, lots of food trucks, and music. It was a loud, joyful and fun walk-through. We are not in Kansas anymore...
First date night! A quick selfie while walking through the Hans-Sachs-Straße gay street festival.



The restaurant was surprisingly quiet even though our reservation was for 7--late for Americans, but apparently more like a 5 p.m. reservation for Germans. J ordered the Matjes fillet, recommended by our German friend, M. I had a vegetarian plate with roasted red peppers stuffed with sheep's cheese, and a salad.

After dinner we meandered back, taking different streets and exploring.

On Sunday we planned to have a restful morning at home after all the running around we'd been doing. In the afternoon we took a bus into the Altstadt to explore. We entered via the Isartor, found the Neues Rathaus with its famous Glockenspiel (we missed the noon show by 12 minutes and the next wasn't until 5--bummer!) in the beautiful Marienplatz, explored the Frauenkirche and Peterskirche, climbed the tower of the Peterskirche for a view of the city, and wandered through the empty stalls of the Viktualienmarkt. We exited the Altstadt via Sendlinger Tor and took the subway home.
Entering the Altstadt via the Isartor.

"Really? It's like a giant cuckoo clock?"


Street musician!

Inside the Rathaus is a courtyard with a restaurant.


Gargoyles!
Fountain! Can we get in?
 



Too cool to get wet these days... (She was also grouchy that she'd forgotten to take her new Canon camera with her.)



Flower boxes... How do they keep these watered?!
The Frauenkirche tower under renovation in the background.

More street musicians... How did they get the piano out here?!

Window shopping! German trinket shop.


Ice cream makes it all worthwhile.


Peterskirche in the reflection.


At the top of the Peterskirche tower.

View of the city with the roofs of the Viktualienmarkt in the foreground.





Frauenkirche in the center and a corner of the Rathaus in the bottom right.

Rathaus


The green space in the distance is the Englischer Garten. J's workplace at the Max Planck for Innovation and Competition is just south of the garden, so only a few minutes walk from where we were in this picture.

The fresco painting on the ceiling of the Peterskirche (also known as "Alter Peter" by the locals).

The rococo high altar at the front of the Peterskirche.

It's hot! And not much better inside the church.

Checking out the fresco on the ceiling.

The tower we had just climbed!


Leaving via the Sendlinger Tor.




Friday, June 22, 2018

Take 2: München, here we come!!

Beginning August 16, 2018, Joshua, ME, HR, GE, and I will be living in an apartment in München (Munich).

We welcome visitors, although our stay is shorter this time and we would like to keep the craziness of visits to a dull roar, so if you're seriously thinking about coming to see us, let me know. Below is a shared calendar for anyone interested in coming, so you can see when others are already visiting. Please consider coming any other time besides September and May. :)

Click on the link: Shared Visitors Calendar (Google Calendar).

For those of you who are curious: Joshua is going to be working at the Max Planck Institute for Innovation and Competition. He is going to be researching and writing his next book about how the law can keep up with technology in an age when social media, like Facebook, is killing democracy (his words). Some of this will intersect with European law theory which is why he wants to be in Europe to attend conferences and toss his ideas around with other deep thinkers.

While he's doing that, I'll be taking care of everyday stuff: household needs, supporting the kids, running along the Isar river, biking everywhere (no car - YAY!), and hopefully doing a lot of singing... The kids will be going to school: Grace will be in 4th grade, the last year of their elementary school (Grundschule), and Hannah and Maggie will be at a secondary school (Gymnasium) in 7th and 10th grades, respectively. I'm excited to hear their German language skills explode and grow over the year.

We are working out the rental agreement for an apartment and, if all goes well, it will be in the Glockenspielviertel of Isarvorstadt on Kapuzinerstrasse just south of the old city (Altstadt) and just a few minutes from the Isar river. [Map] There are grocery stores and drugstores nearby, three Gymnasiums within easy biking/walking distance to choose from and a great local elementary school, Tumblingerschule, just a few blocks away. Plus it's just a short walk to the Isar with walking and biking paths along it's shores...

More soon...

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

The Last Week

Monday June 10

I can't believe this week is here! It always seemed so far away and now I wish in some ways that it would go away. Oh well, can't stop time...

Rain, cold. Solved some big problems: how to return our books and breakables to the US. Which shipping method would be cheapest. Do we buy an extra suitcase and pay the extra baggage fee? J helped me research all the options and we settled on filling two larger boxes and sending them with the Deutsche Post. I also took my wonderful shopping Korb (basket) with some breakables tucked inside to the UPS store because it needed to be shipped in a non-standard size box, plus have extra packing peanuts and so on. UPS took care of it and it might even be waiting for me when I get home! I took several loads of stuff to donation sites and the Sperrmüll center (over-sized and odd trash). I even squeezed in a short trip to the grocery store and returned a bunch of plastic bottles for the Pfand (deposit) return!

GE had a friend come home with her to play and when I took her home around 5, offered her one of our scooters. She was thrilled and I was relieved to be "free" of one more thing.

I made the girls some chicken and potato soup for supper and then J and I went into Bonn to meet his colleague, A, and her daughter for dinner at La Chata, the Spanish tapas restaurant that we'd been to another time. Great food and conversation... but the service last night was atrocious! Oh well, we wrote it off as new student waiters and a busy kitchen (the patio was packed because the evening was so warm).

Tuesday June 11

The sun is out again and the day is supposed to get warm. I needed to get a couple last gifts in Bonn so I asked my friend SL to come along and we had our Kaffee at a cafe' downtown while we waited for the shops to open. Got what I needed and was home late morning in time to get some more organizing and packing done. Brought down more suitcases from the attic. Things are looking good. I think we're going to have room for everything!

HR brought a friend over after school and GE went to one of her Kindergarten friend's house. I made a quick trip over to the Kindergarten to give a Verabschieds gift to one of GE's teachers who will be gone the rest of the week. She gave GE a Glücksstein (Luck Stone) on a braided necklace. When I took HR's friend home at 5, I offered her the other scooter. Yeah, another thing off my list!

Made supper from ingredients in the house: taco lentils with rice, corn chips, lettuce, grated cheese, taco sauce and chopped green onions. Yum!

Wednesday June 12

Well, today did not go quite as planned. Started out well. Sun shining. I took GE to Kindergarten then had to take MK a notebook she'd left at home that she needed for a project due today. Then I went home to get J and we picked up 3 cakes from the Markmann Bäckerei before heading to his office. He was hosting the customary good-bye cake break for his co-workers. Here was the first hiccup. I was anxious to get to the store after dropping J off so I could get some baking done for treats for the girls to take to school tomorrow and Friday. Driving car and riding bicycle have entirely different street routes and I took a convoluted, snake-like route to get J to work--I thought I knew the best way to get there. Turns out it's not so easy with a car! It was later than I'd hoped when I finally got back to the apartment and got started. I planned to make a quick brownie recipe and put that in the oven at my neighbor's house while I made muffins or cookies at our apartment. When I pulled the door closed behind me on my way over to the neighbors, I immediately realized I'd locked myself out! I knew ME's keys were also lying on top of the freezer which meant I couldn't just walk to the school and get hers. J was at the office. MK has school until 3 on Wednesdays... At least I'd stuck my cell phone in my back pocket. J came home on the U-bahn and rescued me, but that set me back another 3/4 hour. To top it off, the brownies turned out too gooey (I always underestimate how long to leave them in and between the pan size being different and the oven temperature not quite the same, my guess was wrong). They're yummy but not presentable. Phooey. So then I thought I'd quick put together my favorite Chocolate Mayonnaise Cake, but when I turned it out to cool, it slipped off the cooling rack and smashed onto the table (serves me right for hurrying...). So, now I had two chocolate disasters. I salvaged what I could (but what was serve-able wasn't enough for the classes) and plan to take them to friends tomorrow night and Saturday night when we're invited out to dinner. In between the disasters I at least got a couple batches of Rice Crispies done. Then I made some molasses cookies for MK, carrot molasses muffins (I had molasses left over from Christmas time!) for GE's Kindergarten group, and finally after dinner I made chocolate chip muffins for ME's class. Whew! In between I squeezed in more of the usual: making lunch and dinner, doing some more laundry and hanging it out (thank goodness for the good weather!), packing, cleaning out closets and cupboards, picking up GE from Kindergarten, wrapping a few gifts for friends and teachers...  In the end, the day turned out OK, but was too harried and stressful.

Thursday June 13
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Here's where the crush of to-do details became more than I could manage to accomplish and still write in the evenings, so weeks later...

June 28, 2013

I'm writing this nearly 2 weeks after our return to Virginia. The last week is hazy and blurred (plus I can hardly write this without getting teary-eyed!), but certain memories are etched in my brain: hearing GE speaking German with her Kindergarten teacher and explaining how we're going back to "Amerika" (with flipped 'r' and bright 'a' vowels), meeting friends for the last time--coffee with SL, dinner with LC and RR, dinner with J's colleague and friend from the Max Planck Institute, gathering many of my dear friends for drinks and Tapas at Club Galacia on Friday night, sending in baked goodies (using up my pantry items!) with the girls to school to say good-bye to their classmates and teachers...

I'm adjusting, slowly and painfully, to being in US again, driving everywhere, going into giant big-box stores, walking across the massive parking lots to get my groceries or household goods. I cried in the Target parking lot.

I'll adjust. It'll just take time. I'm thankful that our home and animals were well cared for. I'm nearly finished unpacking all the stuff we brought or sent home and the many boxes we'd packed for storage. We've seen lots of our family and friends who we missed while we were gone. There's still a long to-do list, but the dust is slowly settling. J is getting back into his work routine.

The girls are up and down. HR is clingy and needs more snuggles and cuddles. GE keeps falling asleep in the afternoon (even after having adjusted to jetlag). ME and MK are busy with summer camps, seeing old friends, and reading lots of English books. Despite their busyness, there are times that both seem more withdrawn, a little sad. ME expresses her wish to see and talk to her German friends again. She has Skyped a few times with some of her classmates, but it's not the same.

Our return trip went as smoothly as one could hope: friends picked up our luggage on Saturday, leaving us two suitcases to stuff our last clothing and toiletries items in, then met us at the Düsseldorf airport early Sunday morning. British Airways gave us a smooth ride and our layover in London was just the right amount of time, not too much waiting, not too hurried. It's wonderful to see our family and friends again. The summer is full of gatherings: my dad's family's reunion in Durango, CO, J's dad's family gathering at his parent's home, his mother's weekend reunion at a camp in VA, a week at the Chesapeake Bay with J's parents, brothers and their families... School will be starting again before we know it!

I'll let the photos tell the rest of the story:


GE holding up the photo of her class, surrounded by her friends and classmates.

Blowing out the "wish you well" candles.

Handing out muffin treats.

On the playground.

Best friends: (from left to right) A, P, GE, and J


ME with her girl friends from school: clockwise starting with the girl in the red shirt, YH, C, JK, A, L.


J's parents and my dad picked us up in DC. My dad took some pictures...


Finally, to all of our dear friends in Germany: how can we begin to express our gratitude? I can hardly believe that our year in Germany has already come and gone. We are so thankful for all the warmth, hospitality, and friendships we experienced. We can't wait for you to visit us in VA!